What is a 4 word question that is essential to your child’s success? What is a question that likely will result in frustration for all concerned?

The question that usually results in frustration is: “Why did you do that?” (or some variation thereof). Use of the word “why” will put most children on the defensive, evoke unintended emotions and take everyone down the path of further straining the relationship.

The 4 word question that is essential to your child’s success is: “What is your plan?” At a minimum, a person must have a plan for time and a plan for money to have any chance at all of being successful.

In the Family Resource Library you will not only be able to find much more very crucial information related to “Ask Wisely!” but you will also be able to take advantage of the many other resources that will make it possible to grow a better family.

Lowell E. Becker, M.D.
Child and Family Psychiatrist